We are all wired for human connection. But a challenge in relationship is how to be truly vulnerable; the challenge of vulnerability is one we struggle with in both individual and couples therapy. I’m including here a lecture by Brene Brown on vulnerability; this is Dr. Brown’s original, and popular, TED talk. Dr. Brown is […]
Lectures
Lectures
Parenting Your Teenager, by Understanding the Adolescent Brain
Parenting a teenager these days is not for the feint of heart; it can be extremely difficult. And what you say and do as a parent really does matter. I’ve included below an enlightening talk by Dr. Daniel Siegel which I hope may be helpful to teens and their parents. Dr. Siegel is a child […]
How Can I Tell If My Marriage Is In Trouble?
In my therapy with couples, we frequently discover that both people feel they have been drifting apart for years and years. I strongly recommend commencing couples therapy when problematic patterns first emerge, as it can be easier to facilitate change at that point. However, at any stage where one or both members of the couple […]
Coping With Fear
In this lecture, Tara Brach discusses how we can understand the impact of fear on our bodies and minds, and introduces techniques for coping with fear. Brach describes how the mind contracts, the body becomes tight, and calls this the “trance” created by fear. She then considers how to “attend and befriend” the fear, and […]